“You Caught Me”

Had a woman recently tell me that I’d caught her.

Funny what a little push-pull can do (so many subtle layers to push-pull I’m learnin).

By saying “You caught me” she’s acknowledging that she’s let her guard down, allowing her feelings to take center stage.

This is how every male-female dynamic has to start off—forever and always.

Women often won’t express such strong feelings that openly, at least not initially, so a man has to learn to pick up on more subtle cues in regards to a woman having been caught.

A woman needs to get caught first before a man can even think about reciprocating.

Recognizing that a woman has committed herself emotionally is the first step toward the building of a potential relationship.

And when I mention a relationship, it doesn’t necessarily mean a long-term monogamous one.

The more she invests emotionally, the more a man can gauge how much he can lead and manage the dynamics of their connection.

Remember, while the woman might be the worker bee of the relationship, you’re the CEO.