There’s a fine line between genuine attentiveness and fallin into the trap of “simpin”—where you overly prioritize her needs at the expense of your own.
No woman worth anythin actually wants to be put her up a pedestal and kiss her ass and feel like she’s not a human being.
The goal is to embrace the best parts of attentiveness without losin your masculine edge / frame.
“Strategic Simpin” allows you to pump up her state and keep her intrigued, all while maintainin your cool.
Pumpin’ State:
Pumpin up her state means actively engagin with her emotions and creating moments that make her feel amazin.
This isn’t about grand gestures or over-the-top romanticism.
Instead, it’s about subtly enhancin her mood and makin her feel a range of emotions through well-timed compliments, playfully teasin her, and genuine interest.
Examples of Pumpin’ Her State:
- Compliments with Substance: Instead of generic praise, focus on specific qualities you genuinely appreciate. For instance, “I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It’s really inspirin.”
- Engagin Conversations: Dive deep into her interests and passions. Ask open-ended questions that let her share more about what she loves. This makes her feel valued and understood.
- Playful Teasin: Light-hearted teasin can elevate her mood and make interactions more dynamic. Just be sure it’s all in good fun and always respectful.
Playin’ It Cool
Now, here’s where the strategic part comes into play.
Once you’ve pumped up her state and she’s feelin great, it’s time to play it cool.
This creates a dynamic where she feels the contrast between your presence and absence, makin her appreciate you even more (and feelin a wider range of emotions).
Women actually fall for a man in his absence: when she’s thinkin about him, what he’s up to, who he’s with (whereas for men it’s the opposite and why we need to be careful spendin too much time with any one woman out of the gate).
Ways to Play It Cool:
- Less Frequent Communication: After a series of engagin conversations, take a step back and let her reach out. This builds anticipation and shows that you have your own life.
- Be Less Available: Make plans with friends or engage in your hobbies. When you’re less available, it makes the times you do spend together more meaningful.
- Maintain Your Masculine Frame: Be confident in your own life and goals. When she sees that you’re not overly dependent on her for validation, it creates a healthy push-pull dynamic.
Why It’s Not Actual Simpin
Strategic Simpin is all about balance.
It’s the art of bein attentive and engagin without compromisin your own needs and boundaries.
Unlike actual simpin, where one might lose their identity or become overly submissive, Strategic Simpin ensures you stay grounded and maintain your masculine presence while creating a positive and engagin experience for her.
Final Thoughts
Strategic Simpin isn’t about manipulatin.
It’s about understandin the dynamics of attraction and engagement, and usin that knowledge to create a more fulfillin and balanced connection.
By pumpin’ up her state and then playin’ it cool, you’ll find that you not only enhance her experience but also keep the relationship dynamic and excitin.
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