Sometimes generating Pre-Selection in real time is making it belligerently obvious with your presence just how much ass you can/are pullin.
Sometimes you can simply hit the room with a sly “yeah I fuck, what’s up” grin.
It’s not always about being overtly confident or flashy though.
It’s not always about your attractiveness or social status.
It can and should stem from genuine self-assurance and natural charisma.
Being comfortable in your skin and radiating an energy that naturally draws others to you.
This vibe of pre-selection is an outwardly penetrating yet unspoken invitation – it’s lighting a match in a dark room. The goal is to get your pre-selection working as a gravitational force.
Socially calibrate it to your environment as the club and church are two different scenes.
No matter where you’re at it’s the allure of confidence, silently saying, “I know what I bring.”
It’s best when folks buy into you not for any external factors like what you are wearing or what you do for a living. It’s about that ‘certain something’ that they can’t into words but can feel coming off you.
If you can create a positive feedback loop by being seen as desirable by a few it’ll make others more interested, thus generating social proof on the fly.
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