As a man do NOT spend too much time with a woman, esp early on.
Do your best NOT to think about her too much, do NOT be textin her too much, etc.
Since a guy falls for a girl the more he’s in her presence, you have to cap it.
And for a girl, she falls for a guy NOT in his presence but in his absence: feelin the lack of his presence, wonderin what he’s up to / where he’s at / who he’s with.
If she feels it in her body that you want to see her too much, that’s anti-seductive to her.
And you’ve lost the leverage.
And once a guy feels that he’s lost the leverage he’ll often work harder to get it back, which makes it worse cuz this shit is counter-intuitive. Women are not the same as buildin a career/business.
Spend your time fillin your cup up by livin your life.
When she’s with you she’ll feel your full cup and be attracted to it and want to drink from it.
Let her drink from it. Give her some of your energy.
But not too much.
Also read: Imagine your Masculine Energy are Gold Bars
Don’t let her drain you. She will. She can’t help herself. It’s on you to set boundaries. Give her enough to feel your energy and then she needs to feel your absence.
Too many guys come into interactions with only half full cups. She’ll be less attracted to you when she feels you only half way full. And she might drink what’s left and then you’re runnin on empty.
A man has to stay as charged up as possible.
A man needs time with his male friends.
A man needs time alone.
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