to dopamine hits through your absence and occasional comfort
They already addicted to junk food and social media
Mine as well drive them insane
and be their crack cocaine
combo of intermittent reinforcement that creates emotional highs
and lows that keep the relationship exciting.
Here are some ways to implement this:
Intermittent Communication
- Less Frequent Contact: Avoid constant messaging or calling. When you do reach out, make it meaningful.
- Unpredictable Replies: Sometimes reply quickly, other times take longer. This unpredictability creates anticipation.
Quality over Quantity
- Memorable Interactions: Make the times you spend together special and memorable. This could be through unique dates, thoughtful gestures, or engaging conversations.
- Positive Reinforcement: When you do give attention or affection, make it impactful. Compliment genuinely, show affection, or share a meaningful moment.
Subtle Push-Pull Techniques
- Occasional Withdrawal: Be less available sometimes. This creates a sense of longing and makes your presence more valued.
- Warmth and Coldness: Alternate between being warm and affectionate and being slightly distant. This emotional rollercoaster can heighten attraction
Focus on Self-Improvement
- Personal Goals: Show that you have a life outside the relationship. Pursue your interests, hobbies, and goals passionately.
- Confidence and Independence: Display confidence and independence. This not only makes you more attractive but also reinforces the value of your time and attention.
Emotional Comfort
- Be Supportive: When she’s going through a tough time, be there to offer genuine support and comfort. This creates a deep emotional connection.
- Listen Actively: Pay attention to her needs and concerns, making her feel heard and understood.
Physical Presence
- Meaningful Touch: Use touch to create a sense of comfort and connection. A reassuring hug or a gentle touch on the arm can be very powerful.
- Eye Contact: Maintain strong eye contact during conversations to create intimacy and connection.
Mystery and Challenge
- Keep Your Mystery: Reveal as little as possible because once they have you figured out, the mystery is gone then they want to try something new like a buffet.
- Be a Challenge: Avoid being too easy to get. Show that your time and attention are valuable, and she needs to earn them.
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