DO
Qualify and Validate Good Behavior
Quote: “Qualifying her and validating only good behavior and then texting without setting dates.”
Reasoning: This ensures that you reward her positive actions, which helps maintain your higher sexual market value (SMV) and reinforces her desire to behave in a way that pleases you.
Use Short, Direct Messages
Quote: “Men do not type paragraphs… Men have to go direct, especially on texts.”
Reasoning: Short, direct messages prevent you from appearing needy or overly emotional, keeping the interaction light and focused on building interest rather than revealing too much too soon.
Incorporate Time Delays
Quote: “Do not be afraid to leave women on read or to not reply to women sometimes for three four five six seven eight days.”
Reasoning: Time delays increase her interest and curiosity about you. It demonstrates that you are not overly available, which heightens her attraction as she wonders about your level of interest.
Send Voice Messages Occasionally
Quote: “Voice messages work… especially if you have a slow controlled calming or deep masculine voice.”
Reasoning: Voice messages can convey tone and personality more effectively than text, creating a stronger emotional connection and keeping her engaged.
DONT
Avoid Over Communicating or Sending Multiple Messages at Once
Quote: “One of the biggest issues that men run into with texting is they talk too much.”
Reasoning: Overcommunication can make you seem overly eager or desperate, diminishing your perceived value. Keep messages brief and to the point to maintain mystery and intrigue.
Do Not Initiate Contact First After a Date
Quote: “Never reach back out first after the date you need to let her reach out to you.”
Reasoning: Allowing her to reach out first signals that you have higher SMV and are not overly invested. This satisfies her hypergamous nature and makes her more interested in pursuing you.
Refrain from Setting Dates Too Soon
Quote: “Texting without trying to set dates or texting without date setting… makes you look very pre-selected.”
Reasoning: Not rushing to set dates makes you appear less desperate and more in demand, which increases her desire to win your attention and approval.
Do Not Show Urgency or Neediness
Quote: “You cannot be urgent. You cannot be needy”.
Reasoning: Urgency and neediness are unattractive traits that lower your perceived value. Showing that you have a full and busy life makes you more desirable.
NOT THE BIBLE OF TEXT GAME but something to help create your overall frame.
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